Fairytales?....yes I believe

I see a fairytale as ones idea of love, devotion, happiness, commitment, etc.  Part of that is the good, the bad, and the very ugly. 

Stories such as Beauty and the Beast, Snow White, etc, shows us that even fairytale characters have had there fair share of heartache, arguments, fights, deaths, etc. Finding love, happy endings never comes easy. Even in alternate universes it takes patience, time, and a lot of work.

It always gets me when people say they don't believe in fairytales. Yet they are quick to decribe what they want in terms of happiness, love, the whole shebang, all down to what 'Prince Charming' should look, smell and sound like. If that's not your fairytale then what is?

If that's how they feel, then not believing in fairytales simply tells me that they don't believe in their own reality. Which at the end of the day is ones idea of what love means to them. So to you cynics I say #wakeup.

I want that Tarzan, Christian Grey type love, the kind that has me seeing doves. 

I love the idea of knowing that there is someone out there that God created just for me. When we cross paths is already predetermined. So when a relationship doesn't go as planed, I embrace it as another lesson learned, another experience that will mold me into the woman I need to be. That way when I do meet my Prince Charming I will be ready for whatever adventures we embark on. Who knows maybe I've already meet him, but God hasn't revealed that part of his plan just yet. 

Nothing good in life comes easy, that's not to say that you should be in a relationship that is unhealthy. I think Bob Marley said it best: “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” I think this works both ways, the Queen protects and fights for her King. He is nothing without her, and she is nothing without him.

Never stop believing in the possibility of love because then that just means you've given up. Don't let someone elses ideas or life events determine your course of happiness. Just because your girl or boy had a bad experience, doesn't make it all that way. #wakeup

Things may not happen how you want them to, but trust and believe that they will happen when they are supposed too.   

XOXO

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